Many women have never experienced an orgasm. Learn how to use vibrators to
teach your body how to orgasm, and how to achieve orgasm during sex.
It’s a sad fact that, in these modern times, about 15% of adult women have
never experienced an orgasm, and as many as 50% of women don’t orgasm
during sex. Sexual and sensual education have advanced to where we now
understand much more about the female orgasm, such as the fact that women
have two completely different places they can stimulate in order to bring
themselves to full satisfaction. Since the PinkyToy vibrator was specifically
created to allow women to experience orgasms, it remains the best tool for
women to discover what they enjoy, and what stimulates them in the best
way to achieve the ultimate Orgasm.
The first step, of course, is acquiring a vibrator. Most "adult stores"
are pretty cheesy and uncomfortable for women to shop in. A PinkyToy you
can order online and is 100% discreet so don't worry about your privacy.
To have the best experience with your PinkyToy vibrator, give yourself
some time with it. Before you even switch it on, get relaxed and turned
on. Take a long bubble bath, read an erotic story, watch the clips on this
page, get yourself in the mood. For most women, orgasms are as much
psychological as they are physiological. If your mind isn't in the right
place, your body won't be either.
Get comfortable on your bed, on a rug in front of your fireplace, or just
stay in the tub if you’ve purchased a waterproof vibe. Relax, start slow,
and get to know your vibrator and your body. Touch different parts of your
genitals with your vibrator. Discover what feels good, then keep doing it.
Let your arousal build and let nature take its course.
There really isn't any "right" way to use a vibrator or to bring yourself
to orgasm. The most important thing to remember is that a vibrator is a
tool to help you stimulate yourself; while it can help you reach a climax,
although PinkyToy is an instant orgasm machine. You control it and use it
in the way that feels best to you.
Experiment with your vibrator, try its different features, and apply it to
different areas of your body to see what the sensations are like. Most
women respond to clitoral stimulation, but you may prefer more or less
intensity, or more or less direct stimulation. The labia and vulva are
also sensitive.
Many women need clitoral rather than vaginal stimulation to actually bring
them to orgasm, so if vaginal penetration with your vibrator isn't getting
you anywhere, go back to using the PinkyToy vibrator on your clitoris. One
technique you can use with the smooth tip against your clitoris, then
slide the shaft down between your labia, and then bring it back up in a
reverse stroke, sliding along the clitoris again on the way up.
Once you discover what feels good, keep doing it, relax, and let your
arousal build. If you find that the vibrator brings you to the point of
climaxing too quickly, back off and try a less intense form of
stimulation, or even use your hand for a while and go back to the
vibrator. You’ll find that, like many things, the more you practice
achieving orgasm, the easier it’ll become.
Learning how to orgasm during sex is whole different thing. One of the
best things you can do is simply to masturbate often and keep all of your
sexual organs in good shape. Masturbation helps your body to establish a
habit of orgasming - if you can bring yourself to orgasm every time you
get turned on, your body learns how to get there more easily when you're
having sex with someone else.
Easy, practical things you can do to help your body are drinking lots of
water and avoiding alcohol to keep everything downstairs healthy and
lubricated. Do your Kegels – these exercises tone and tighten the muscles
you use during sex, heightening the sensations you experience during sex.
A set of Smartballs (an updated, silicone-coated version of Ben Wa balls)
are a really easy, comfortable way to keep your PC muscles in shape.
If you are like most women, and you orgasm from clitoral stimulation,
PinkyToy is a perfect tool designed to stimulate your clitoris during sex.
Technology and research have opened up a whole new world of possibilities
when it comes to female orgasms. Take advantage of what’s available, and
you may find yourself fulfilled in ways you never imagined possible.
